To me, apples are the best and possibly the most versatile fruits on the planet. And, I love that they have a varied and sordid history — from Eden to Snow White (they’ve been through a lot!) So naturally I channel all this apple-love into a fun apple harvest dinner party.

I want to have fun at the party and not be exhausted from cooking and prepping all day so my plan is to keep everything simple. I’d like to have dinner on the deck, so I decide to keep the party to 8 guests total including my husband and me. Next, I make sure that my party space is ready for guests. I make a list of the things that need to refreshed after my summer dinner parties like: buy more citronella fuel for my torches, get a few more votives for the table, sweep the deck and give the cushions a fluff.

I want to include apples in my table décor, of course, but I want it to be simple and fresh. I choose the theme of “fresh from the orchard” and I decide to create centerpieces using paper lunch sacks filled with apples. I roll the sides of the bags to various heights and tie ribbon belts around the sacks for a punch of color. I add tags with sayings including “tasty” & “juicy” to the ribbon for a little fun. These centerpieces will also be great take-home gifts for my friends. I’ll be sure to slip my favorite apple pie recipe into the bags before they leave so they’ll have inspiration for using their apples at home.

Because I’m obsessed with decorative papers, I create apple-themed place cards and menus for my party. These cute little cards are available on my website if you’d like to use them for your party too. Decor tip: slipping the place cards into the tongs of the fork at each place setting adds a little extra dimension to the tablescape and is a great way to display them.

Now for the good stuff – the food! I always have drinks and tasty bites ready to go 10 – 15 minutes before party time. These little lifesavers are great for those early bird arrivals and keep us all happy until the last guests arrive. I decide to make little apple, ham & brie stacks. These remind me of little croque monsieurs – without the bread. Yum! They are great because they can be prepared in advance and then served at room temperature. I think I’ll slide mine on to little skewers to make them even easier to munch. Perfect little no-fuss bites. I think sparkling apple cider and apple martinis are just right with these. Cocktail tip: I recommend using a cocktail mixer when making apple martinis – these shortcuts make “tending the bar” a snap!

For dinner, I want to start with a small salad of mixed greens combined with sliced apples and topped with candied walnuts (which I buy pre-candied in the nut aisle at my local grocery store) and a shaving or two of Parmesan cheese. Bleu cheese crumbles would be a delicious alternative to the parm, if you prefer. Drizzle just a touch of olive oil and apple cider vinegar and voila! Salad is served.

For the entrée, I am craving ham slowly roasted in apple cider with an apple-honey-mustard glaze. Now remember, I said I don’t want to cook all day, so I’m going to rely on my slow-cooker (also known as a crock-pot). This is my favorite entertaining secret weapon. I get all the benefits of a slow cooked meal without having to hover over the stove for hours. To accompany the ham, I’ll make cheesy cheddar grits and apple-cabbage slaw. These will be easy to prepare shortly before guests arrive.

But, how to end this meal, that’s the hardest decision. I love apple pie and I’m sorely tempted to go that route but the siren call of apple-cider donuts is too much for me to resist – plus I can set up stations so that all of us can participate in making them which will be a lot of fun for all of us and create some great memories. What more could an apple-crazed gal like me ask for?

Here are a few of the recipes to try: 

Rustic Ham with Apple-Honey-Mustard Glaze

Ham:
1 fully cooked ham, 3 – 5 pounds, be sure it will fit in your slow cooker
4 cups apple cider, or enough to cover (apple juice may be used if cider isn’t available)
12 whole cloves

Glaze:
2 cups apple cider
2 Tablespoons Dijon mustard
½ cup honey
½ teaspoon or a pinch of ground cloves

1 – Roughly score ham with a knife and randomly stud with whole cloves.
2 – Place ham in slow cooker and pour apple cider over ham to cover.
3 – Cook on low for 8 hours.
4 – During last 20 minutes of cooking preheat oven to 400 degrees and prepare glaze. In a small bowl, combine cider, mustard, honey and ground cloves.
5 – Place ham into a roasting pan and brush glaze over top of ham.
6 – Bake for 30 minutes or until ham is browned. Remove from oven and allow to rest on cutting board for 30 minutes. Note: Leaving the ham in the pan will encourage more cooking and not help the ham cool down.
7 – Slice and serve!
 
Apple Cider Donuts:
2 Tablespoons butter, softened
1 ½  cup  granulated sugar
3 teaspoon  cinnamon
1 ½  teaspoon nutmeg
½ cup  apple cider
1/3 cup  buttermilk
1  egg
1  egg yolk
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 cups  Bisquick
  canola oil
1. In a bowl, beat butter until creamy. Add in 1/2 cup of sugar, 1 teaspoon of cinnamon, and ½ teaspoon of nutmeg, combine well. Next, add apple cider, buttermilk, egg, egg yolk and vanilla, mix thoroughly, scraping sides of bowl to be sure batter is well blended. Finally, stir in bisquick.
2. In a shallow bowl or pie plate, combine 1 cup of sugar, 2 teaspoons of cinnamon and 1 teaspoon of nutmeg. Set this aside to coat hot donuts after frying.
3. Flour your hands and your countertop and lightly roll dough to a 1/2-inch thickness. Try not to work the dough too much – you don’t want it to become tough. Use either a 2-1/2-inch doughnut cutter or 2 graduated sizes of glasses. Dip cutter or glasses into flour between cuts to keep cutting easy. Reshape dough and cut again. Roll remaining dough into small donut “holes.”
4. Fill a large frying pan ¾ of the way full with oil. Heat over medium heat. Place donuts into hot oil – be careful not to crowd the pan. Cook for 2 – 3 minutes or until golden brown. Gently flip the donut and cook another 2 – 3 minutes. Remove donuts from oil with a slotted spoon or tongs. Drain on paper towels.
5. Immediately dip hot donuts into sugar, cinnamon & nutmeg mix.
6. Repeat with remaining donuts and “holes.”
7. If not eating immediately, allow donuts and holes to cool on cooling rack. Store in sealed Ziploc bag in refrigerator. Serve warm or at room temperature.

Looking for more festive holiday party ideas this holiday season, stop by Jennifer’s blog or her website Jennifer Carroll Designs today.

For gals, your jewelry choices are many with some of the following items sure to please:

Sterling silver polished heart locket – a thoughtful keepsake, a stylish heart locket can hold her most prized photograph close to her own heart. Timeless and elegant, she’ll cherish its beauty and appreciate your thoughtfulness.

Sterling silver heart threaded earrings – dangling earrings with hearts on the end make for a fashion statement she’ll most certainly appreciate. Sterling silver provides the value and the quality that will stand the test of time.

Contemporary bracelet – her tastes are definitely trendy, therefore finding something that unites timeless beauty with contemporary appeal is the best way to go. Choose a bracelet that combines yellow gold, cherry quartz, and silver pearl to warm her heart. An exquisite artsy design crafted to appeal to most any free spirited woman.

Silver circle necklace — whether she enjoys a Bohemian look or prefers unabashed on-the-town elegance, circle necklaces are showy, fun pieces that can be worn with just about anything or taken everywhere. From garage sale shopping to a night at the opera, her silver circle necklace will shimmer and chime wherever she goes.

Cross pendant – if her Christian faith is important to her, your gift recipient may enjoy wearing a cross pendant. Instead of settling for the usual gold or silver cross, why not choose one tipped with seventeen champagne diamonds embedded on a 14 karat white gold setting? A truly unique gift one that is both inspirational and dazzling.

Akoya Pearl & Diamond Stud Earrings – If she hasn’t received her first pair of pearl studs, then why not be the one to give such a gift? Whether choosing yellow gold or white gold post, Akoya pearl and diamond stud earrings are one gift that is always appreciated, especially if given by the parents or grandparents. Long after you are gone, her earrings will serve as a permanent symbol of your love.

Graduation is an important occasion, one that will be recalled and cherished for many years. Jewelry is one gift with sustaining value and near universal appeal. Choose what she wants and her gratefulness will soon be apparent, all the proof you need to show that you made the right gift choice.

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1. Christmas lights.  They’re not just for putting on your Christmas tree.  A box of little white lights you can find everywhere during the holidays will make any party shine. White lights in a centerpiece, around a table or an archway, even in the potted plants, can make any occasion festive (twinkling optional).  Pick up strands of solid color lights, too.  Red is great for Valentine’s Day, green for St. Patrick’s Day, etc.  You can also find novelty strings of Christmas lights that feature everything from cartoon characters (great for a kid’s birthday) to chili pepper lights for your next fiesta themed party.

2. Silver and Gold. If you’re even contemplating the possibility of planning a 25th or 50th anniversary party, this is the best time of year to find everything silver and gold.  Candles, plates, baskets, ribbons, big bows and everything else imaginable is shiny, metallic and begging to be scooped up by the savvy shopper.  But you don’t have to be shopping for just a golden wedding anniversary.  For a touch of elegance to any party, silver or gold can’t be beat.

3. Stars. You can’t go to a place that sells Christmas decorations without finding lots of stars in every shape, size and product.  Star shaped ornaments look great hanging everywhere at a graduation celebration of someone who’s “reaching for the stars”.  Or maybe there’s a birthday party on the agenda for someone else in your life who’s a star.  The holidays are the right time to pick up these versatile items

4. Snowflakes and fake spray “snow”.  If you’re planning any winter party or winter wonderland themed event, Christmas is the time to buy these.  You can find an abundance of decorations from icicles to snowmen.  By January, all these items are gone from the stores, so they won’t be easy to find.

5. Solid color anything.  Of course, there’s tons of red and green items.  But there’s also a lot of blue (for Hanukkah).  So, if your upcoming party can take advantage of those colors, this is the time to find a large supply.

6. Foil wrapping paper.  This is available in just about every color and sometimes with patterns that don’t look too much like Christmas (like stripes, swirls or stars).  But you can use this to cover tables, make a centerpiece and all kinds of other crafty things.  If you think you might be able to use this colorful foil for an upcoming event, pick up some rolls at the dollar store during the holiday season.

7. Party clothes.  The best time of year to buy a fancy dress and evening bag is not two weeks before your big party next May.  It’s during the Christmas season.  That’s when the stores have the biggest selection of glittery and glamorous attire.  They’re catering to all those people that are attending Christmas parties and New Year’s Eve celebrations.  So, if you know you’re going to need to wear something pretty special to an upcoming event, take advantage of the large variety of choices on the store racks during the holidays.

Right before Christmas you can find great party supplies for all year long.  But if you’re willing to wait until the week after Christmas, you can get them at deep discounts from 50% to even 75% off.  Of course, you run the risk that the store shelves will be picked over and you won’t find exactly what you want.  But it’s definitely worth it for the budget-minded party planner.  And guess what?  When your guests see the great party supplies you picked up during the holidays, they’ll never suspect you bought them while Christmas shopping!

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